What would you do if it was you
  • Imagine yourself a guy you had a girlfriend that you loved seriously and you tot loved you back too
    Had been going for close to a year then you start thinkin of how to make things advance you know as in start making plans on how to make sure things work out for the two of you.. You guys promised yourselves to fight it thru the storm together.. So you had yo eyes on livin happily ever after with the girl of yo dreams
    Then suddenly out of no where evil cupid came and she started trying to make fights out of everything being a cool headed dude you did not fight instead you tried to talk to her instead she picked yo calls whenever she felt like and sang a song on the radio instead of talking to you
    Went on for a while then you decided to go thru her closest friends then they said they'll talk to her and she told them nothing was wrong some days later she broke up wit you .. Why no reason .. And she wants you to be friends .. Wtf friends am i crazy .. Then you try to still talk to her then she wastes all yo credit tryin to get her to talk to you she just tells you .. You're making her angry .. Why? No reason am i missing something here? You fall ill then you just feel you can't take it anymore you loose yo cool and tell her to act like she never knew you she should never call you again .. Cus the pain you feel is so great and you feel you'd try and forget about her in yo past if she's not in yo future is that a bad thing to do?
  • Two can play that game..i wont lie i love it when girls hurt guys <!-- s:twisted: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_twisted.gif" alt=":twisted:" title="Twisted Evil" /><!-- s:twisted: --> Mean players that is...

    But in this case, sowwy(did it happen to you)
    neways my own contribution.


    Talking to her friends? wrong move. they might be the instigators you know.
    She prolly found someone else. (might be)
    she says she wanna be friends? what for.... <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
    Not like the relationship wasn't working out and you guys both agree to call it of and be friend.
    she called it off, now it is your turn to decide how you wanna act with her.
    Just chill out man, shit happens...
    someday, you are either going to re-unite with her and you guys are going to wonder why this shit right there ever happened!!!
    or you gonna find somebody new..and then you gonna be like...wow "i thought i was in love with her"
  • Nice thing is wasn't a player move she's just being am ass she'll look back and regret later
  • brother take this lil, advise from me, though its unfortunate a chic is here, anyways
    1. there is a huge difference between what every woman wants and what attracts them,charm is every thing that keeps a relationship lasting, the guy(maybe you) may have lost that charm she feels for him(u), maybe he(u) need to get it back
    2. bible says:"there is a time to love, and a time to hate", give her some breathing space, she could only be going thru that season
    3. Quote from titanic film, " a womans heart is an ocean of secrets", so there could be some sec** she maybe hiding.
    4.Never lose that MASCULINE grib on a chic, they love it when u act as the man, not a jerk begging them, believe me it pisses them off
    5.i qoute Deangelo:-"there are many fishes in the ocean, dont kill urself pursuing a small and stubborn one
    6.finally WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE, "TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES, its a living thing, if u have really sown it allow it, it must surely grow
    one love brother,
  • @toluaina call me lets talk it over-they call me TONY, u know what dat name implies for the bearer, true PH blood-08063450509
  • Two can play that game..i wont lie i love it when girls hurt guys <!-- s:twisted: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_twisted.gif" alt=":twisted:" title="Twisted Evil" /><!-- s:twisted: --> Mean players that is...

    But in this case, sowwy(did it happen to you)
    neways my own contribution.


    Talking to her friends? wrong move. they might be the instigators you know.
    She prolly found someone else. (might be)
    she says she wanna be friends? what for.... <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
    Not like the relationship wasn't working out and you guys both agree to call it of and be friend.
    she called it off, now it is your turn to decide how you wanna act with her.
    Just chill out man, shit happens...
    someday, you are either going to re-unite with her and you guys are going to wonder why this shit right there ever happened!!!
    or you gonna find somebody new..and then you gonna be like...wow "i thought i was in love with her"</p></div></blockquote>


    babe wassup, c aw u r jus giving this stuffs out u r bunch of great stuffs, <!-- s8) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_cool.gif" alt="8)" title="Cool" /><!-- s8) --> pls dont send that emoticons bcos i know u will certainly especially this one <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
  • of course you know i would <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: --> <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
  • brother take this lil, advise from me, though its unfortunate a chic is here, anyways
    1. there is a huge difference between what every woman wants and what attracts them,charm is every thing that keeps a relationship lasting, the guy(maybe you) may have lost that charm she feels for him(u), maybe he(u) need to get it back
    2. bible says:"there is a time to love, and a time to hate", give her some breathing space, she could only be going thru that season
    3. Quote from titanic film, " a womans heart is an ocean of secrets", so there could be some sec** she maybe hiding.
    4.Never lose that MASCULINE grib on a chic, they love it when u act as the man, not a jerk begging them, believe me it pisses them off
    5.i qoute Deangelo:-"there are many fishes in the ocean, dont kill urself pursuing a small and stubborn one
    6.finally WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE, "TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES, its a living thing, if u have really sown it allow it, it must surely grow
    one love brother,</p></div></blockquote>

    Depends on what you mean or see as loosing the Masculine grip.
    I love when a guy let me control, once in a while
    aint trying to rule him or nothing
    but just lemme dominate...it's cool.
    and at the same time, dont ever let me forget you are the "man"
    and you cant achieve that by bossing me around or ringing it in my Ears...you act like a "MAN"


    About her hiding something, you are right, she can just get up one day and try to break up the relationship.

    Yep!!! what will be will be
  • @ashewo Masculine grib cud jus mean keeping silent and yet holding the game, two must play that game of course, but then Jennifer Lopez said "my man is quiet and yet "quiet" all men are quiet but not all men are quiet
  • @ ashewo, let me give u a lil glimpse of mysef, i am a natural quiet man, and yet my g*friends tell me ur composition is what thrill me", i know u sef dey feel me, tell me the truth, am the man, u no understand. <!-- s:wink: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_wink.gif" alt=":wink:" title="Wink" /><!-- s:wink: --> <!-- s:wink: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_wink.gif" alt=":wink:" title="Wink" /><!-- s:wink: --> , madam emoticons jus say make i join u too
  • So you keep quiet all the time not cool either <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
    i dont what makes you keep saying i a feeling you <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: --> <!-- s:oops: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_redface.gif" alt=":oops:" title="Embarassed" /><!-- s:oops: -->
  • @Ashewo a lil secret

    LLcoolJ-ladies luv cool joker

    i know because i know that u know that i know

    Rev.Tonero-U r blessed, tell me se no b bcos of my current sturvs u dey visit here 24, i no this things, even if u dont agree. can someone pls RAAAAAAR for me
  • @Tonero, brother i love you to the bone, u r the man of this forum , i love you
  • @Tonero can i come into ur world, u ar too much , and i know say ashewo dey fill u, na true u talk, she dey visit here 24 to hear wetin the don master won yearn,
    make i RAR 4 u, 1 luv
  • Hmmm girls are complex they r very oh my goodness.. Never can understand them Sure God is a woman too
  • @toluaina bro lets learn from Tonero, he's the DON,jus RAR 4 him, u'll lovce him
  • Hmmm girls are complex they r very oh my goodness.. Never can understand them Sure God is a woman too</p></div></blockquote>

    awww, it's not that bad, same way Men are complicated too <!-- s:twisted: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_twisted.gif" alt=":twisted:" title="Twisted Evil" /><!-- s:twisted: -->
    we can never understand the,, that is why we are different.
    we all need to learn more about each other. that way we can survive amongst one another <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- s:) -->
    Cheer up Bro <!-- s8) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_cool.gif" alt="8)" title="Cool" /><!-- s8) -->
  • Hmmm girls are complex they r very oh my goodness.. Never can understand them Sure God is a woman too</p></div></blockquote>

    awww, it's not that bad, same way Men are complicated too <!-- s:twisted: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_twisted.gif" alt=":twisted:" title="Twisted Evil" /><!-- s:twisted: -->
    we can never understand the,, that is why we are different.
    we all need to learn more about each other. that way we can survive amongst one another <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- s:) -->
    Cheer up Bro <!-- s8) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_cool.gif" alt="8)" title="Cool" /><!-- s8) --></p></div></blockquote>

    at least u jus made some meaning girl, i feel u sha
  • Well guys are more complicating anyway <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: --> <!-- s:lol: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /><!-- s:lol: -->
  • @ ashewo, let me give u a lil glimpse of mysef, i am a natural quiet man, and yet my g*friends tell me ur composition is what thrill me", i know u sef dey feel me, tell me the truth, am the man, u no understand. <!-- s:wink: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_wink.gif" alt=":wink:" title="Wink" /><!-- s:wink: --> <!-- s:wink: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_wink.gif" alt=":wink:" title="Wink" /><!-- s:wink: --> , madam emoticons jus say make i join u too</p></div></blockquote>

    Just saw this part...girlfriends? you have a lot of them..Typical Naija Man <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
  • @ashewo u make me laugh why are u freaking me out, i dey shame oh
  • Freaking you out? are you saying i am a freak <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: --> <!-- s:lol: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /><!-- s:lol: -->
    ok, seriously how and why am i freaking you out?
  • @ashewo, yes u r jus doin it,and i no, u aint a lil child isn't it
  • you are confusing me <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: --> <!-- s:lol: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /><!-- s:lol: -->
  • You have said so many things about this lady most of which we cannot verify or hear her own side of the story. All the same, iwill advise that you exercise some patience if you really want togain anything from this relationship. You never no with women.
  • You wanna hear her side?
    Me too i wanna her side too..
    I tried talkin bro she no wan talk .. Like she just stopped lovin me
    For no fucking reason
    But what can a brother do than to live his life she was picking fights out nothing
  • brother take this lil, advise from me, though its unfortunate a chic is here, anyways
    1. there is a huge difference between what every woman wants and what attracts them,charm is every thing that keeps a relationship lasting, the guy(maybe you) may have lost that charm she feels for him(u), maybe he(u) need to get it back
    2. bible says:"there is a time to love, and a time to hate", give her some breathing space, she could only be going thru that season3. Quote from titanic film, " a womans heart is an ocean of secrets", so there could be some sec** she maybe hiding.
    4.Never lose that MASCULINE grib on a chic, they love it when u act as the man, not a jerk begging them, believe me it pisses them off
    5.i qoute Deangelo:-"there are many fishes in the ocean, dont kill urself pursuing a small and stubborn one
    6.finally WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE, "TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES, its a living thing, if u have really sown it allow it, it must surely grow
    one love brother
    ,</p></div></blockquote>

    this jus might really help you bro, whether she has a story or not just rely on the letters on bold. luv you bro <!-- s:wink: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_wink.gif" alt=":wink:" title="Wink" /><!-- s:wink: -->
  • Toluaina.

    Sorry about it. things like that happen. If she's playing mute, she probably doesn't want you anymore or she needs some time off.

    meanwhile, I'll advise you to start searching for someone else.... really.


    one more thing, mind the f-words. <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- s:) -->
  • it could jus be true, but most times not as u think it
  • @Tonero, brother i love you to the bone, u r the man of this forum , i love you</p></div></blockquote>
    @Tonero can i come into ur world, u ar too much , and i know say ashewo dey fill u, na true u talk, she dey visit here 24 to hear wetin the don master won yearn,
    make i RAR 4 u, 1 luv</p></div></blockquote>
    @toluaina bro lets learn from Tonero, he's the DON,jus RAR 4 him, u'll lovce him</p></div></blockquote>

    Tonero, where dis your fan go na?
  • you should not cry o'er split milk! Even though its gonna pain me, there is nothing I can do. The girl definitely must have had something up her sleeves before she started behaving like that. If I'm sure that my love for her is CANDID, and I know that her love for me was CANDID, (that's if she was not pretending) I'll go and meet her, tell her about our past love life, tell her how much I love her and (not begging her) tell her to explain what I did to her. Throughout my visit to her, I'll make sure I make her to look at me, I mean eye-to-eye. If she can do that there is no way she won't feel remorse concerning what you had both shared together. Do you know that it is very normal for a girl to fall for a man through direct contact with the eyes? If she should do that, if she should look at your eyes, it is either that she takes her eyes off you or she comes back to relity.
    We women have a sensation whenever it comes to a direct eye contact with a guy who has been trying to get us!
  • oh please praise... you seen way too many high school movies!... eye to eye.... mmm... gone with the 90's
  • please shed more light into what you are trying to say and buttress more on your point.
  • EYE TO EYE? LOOK YOU IN THE EYE?

    See ehn, i would look at him in the pupil(deep in your eye), and slap the guy if i dont like him and he's bothering me (if i were a gal), so just end that fantasy that nobody can look you in the eye and give you "eh-la"
  • wat do you guys think about this "look-at -me-in-the-eye-and-say-you-dont-love-me" idea?
  • like u said b4 it only happens in d movies or mayb in d 90s not now. pple luk at u straight in d eyes n tell u all manner of LIES without even blinkin an eyelid
  • what pathetic story, I have almost fall ill too cuz of a girl but nowadays, nope, can't allow my heart to got broken...
  • can't allow my heart to got broken...</p></div></blockquote>


    still a small boy eh, i see, still need some orientation
  • tiiiiiooooowwwwnnnnn!!!!!!!.....lmao <!-- s:lol: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /><!-- s:lol: -->
  • u and laugh, its getting out of hand o
  • when the guy tiiiowwnn nko?
  • mr.english oya teach am na if him tioooown
  • what pathetic story, I have almost fall ill too cuz of a girl but nowadays, nope, can't allow my heart to got broken...</p></div></blockquote>

    need i say more?
  • correct am na, no amplify am
  • sorry, tis just that you said you didn't see it!
  • Guys do u realize that the population of women to men....its sometin else...if 1 no gree...the other go gree... Women dnt have sense...take this frm me..we r only managing to accomodate dem on earth..
  • Guys do u realize that the population of women to men....its sometin else...if 1 no gree...the other go gree... Women dnt have sense...take this frm me..we r only managing to accomodate dem on earth..</p></div></blockquote>

    bros... with that comment, you're on your own oh!!!
  • I find it hard to believe that such thing live lo... still exist....baby boy wake up.
    Two can play that game..i wont lie i love it when girls hurt guys <!-- s:twisted: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_twisted.gif" alt=":twisted:" title="Twisted Evil" /><!-- s:twisted: --> Mean players that is...

    But in this case, sowwy(did it happen to you)
    neways my own contribution.


    Talking to her friends? wrong move. they might be the instigators you know.
    She prolly found someone else. (might be)
    she says she wanna be friends? what for.... <!-- s:roll: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /><!-- s:roll: -->
    Not like the relationship wasn't working out and you guys both agree to call it of and be friend.
    she called it off, now it is your turn to decide how you wanna act with her.
    Just chill out man, shit happens...
    someday, you are either going to re-unite with her and you guys are going to wonder why this shit right there ever happened!!!
    or you gonna find somebody new..and then you gonna be like...wow "i thought i was in love with her"</p></div></blockquote>
    <!-- s:lol: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /><!-- s:lol: -->
    hmmmmm</p></div></blockquote>

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