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CAN U HAVE SEX WITH PERSON(S) WHO IS OLDER THAN YOU WITH YRS (10-15YRS)?

boye

yes
but 10-15 years older is too much u know how the body of women looks like when they're gettin older

boye

yes
but 10-15 years older is too much u know how the body of women looks like when they're gettin older

musty

10 - 15 yrs? haba thats too much but lyk 5 yrs . . . why no biggie at all

doni

dere's is realli no big deal having sex with an older person. 4 a man 2 ve sex wit a woman dat's like 10-15yrs older, is very unlikely except 4 gigolos. but 4 woman, its reali nothin. she can date or marry an older man even wen d man is twice her age. its a mata of choice

folasanwo

i really dont think there's anything wrong, as long as its a real relationship heading somewhere, and not just a one time thingy...

waijaytee

WHY NOT? IT IS MUTUAL BUT THEN WHAT IS THE MORAL... MARRIED? OK JUST FOR THE FUN/ DISGRACEFUL.....

stanley

well is not a bad thing, if u like wat u are doing den it ok to me

stanley

"Monday Innocent&quot wrote:

CAN U HAVE SEX WITH PERSON(S) WHO IS OLDER THAN YOU WITH YRS (10-15YRS)?</p></div></blockquote> i belive be for anybody wel go and have sex wit 10-15yers old woman oboy u no wat u want from the woman. so to me is not a bad thing if u no wat u want. is ur life?[flash][/flash]

musty

@ stanley it is not always for sumtin in return some guys just luv old women 4 there own weird reasons

Tonero

"musty&quot wrote:

@ stanley it is not always for sumtin in return some guys just luv old women 4 there own weird reasons</p></div></blockquote>

bro you are right, i know of a muss in my hood that dates strictly OLD WOMEN, and the guy is jus so proud doin his thing, he wears the latest perfume in town, best clothes and even the best cars, but the thing there is that his family aint proud of his act

all the same sha, he tell u its his life and he's got the rite to leave it the way he wants

on the second thought:

WHAT DOES A YOUNG AND STRONG LOOKING GUY of 37yrs WANTS FROM A 52YRS WOMAN, to me its not just weird but ABNORMAL

folasanwo

guy 25 - lady 35 (sorry, HOT 35), thats not so bad izit?

Tonero

ok what will you say of

GUY 21 - LADY 36, lets even say a divorcee of 3kids simply because she looks good and hot, men i cant when the ocean is filled with a million gold-fish why wasting time chasing a mama whale

folasanwo

i'm not proud of it, but in the spirit of being truthful, i did 20-34 before.... and it wasn't so bad... who am i kidding, it was beautiful... we split ways cos i told her to marry one particular widowed man that had been chasing her...

fun while it lasted (oh... memories...)

Tonero

lemme explain even better

science say a guy still remains active(u understand na?) even to the age of 65, so which means as long as it does he can still enjoy his sizes and even the young chics

but a lady they say expires during her menopause(state where all reproductive issues sleeps) dont get angry at me plzzzzzzz, and i believe u understand the age for this her state, so whats up with a young G and a mrs.Menopause doing in bed

check it out, u'll understand for ursef

folasanwo

na mehn... that rtnship didn't have a future, we were just keeping each other's company... u know na....

even if i marry someone older e no go pass 2-3 years!

Tonero

men my pastor gives deliverance every wednesday by 4pm in ma church, jus a suggestion from someone that cares

folasanwo

LMAO....LOL...<img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />

warlord

I have dated ladies 5 years older than me in the past, and I would say apart from the age difference they are quite romantic and very understanding compare to ladies my age <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_exclaim.gif" alt=":!:" title="Exclamation" />

Ashewo

"warlord&quot wrote:

I have dated ladies 5 years older than me in the past, and I would say apart from the age difference they are quite romantic and very understanding compare to ladies my age <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_exclaim.gif" alt=":!:" title="Exclamation" /> </p></div></blockquote>

<img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />
You know older ladies (maybe sugar mummies)
dont give their men the kind of "wahala" we young women give <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />
i agree with you on that.
trust me those older women were once troublesome <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />

to the topic, yes i can
10-15 is not a bad age difference.

warlord

"Ashewo&quot wrote:

i agree with you on that.
trust me those older women were once troublesome <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /> </p></div></blockquote>

You are quite right <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="" title="Very Happy" />

Praise Adeyemo

to be sincere, i can't believe what i'm reading! <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_cry.gif" alt=":cry:" title="Crying or Very sad" /> huh, <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" /> <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt=":roll:" title="Rolling Eyes" />
well, our own generation believes in one man-one woman thing. do you understand <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_question.gif" alt="

:" title="Question" /> maybe in case of the ladies, that is possible, u know wat happens in the campuses today is just part of it. but as a matter of fact, even if i was presently in the university, how can i allow one old cargo sugar daddy to start carressing me talkless of having a romantic affair with the oldcargo. the only thing that can cause this issue of having sex with an elderly person is LOW SELF ESTEEM. if you really have HIGH SELF ESTEEM, i see no reason for you to have sex with someone 10 -15 years older than you! <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_exclaim.gif" alt=":!:" title="Exclamation" />

folasanwo

i'm blocking my ears, eyes, nose, and every other part of my body i can block!

while i'm not a pro-juvy runs person, i believe in being very candid (a word you praise have used severly in this forum), and that last post only reflects your opinion, because it would only take a guy who has rooftop high self esteem to actually think he can be man over a woman who's 10 years older!

enter uni first, you'd be in a better position to assess this

warlord

@Praise....

A day in the future you will understand better what Folasanwo have just said <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_exclaim.gif" alt=":!:" title="Exclamation" />

Praise Adeyemo

if aguy should have ROOFTOP HIGH ESTEEM as you put and says the best to display it is by having sex with some one 10-15years older than him, then he should be ashamed. if he can do that with someone who is old enough to be his dad or mum then why can't he go ahead and have sex with his mum's beat friend or better still his mum?

folasanwo

"Praise Adeyemo&quot wrote:

if aguy should have ROOFTOP HIGH ESTEEM as you put and says the best to display it is by having sex with some one 10-15years older than him, then he should be ashamed. if he can do that with someone who is old enough to be his dad or mum then why can't he go ahead and have sex with his mum's beat friend or better still his mum?</p></div></blockquote>

at this point, you're being silly, childish or irrational (this is my point of view)!

Tonero

@folasanwo,

there u go again, i thought a question was asked and guess she's jus giving her own point of view. well to me, i simply cant, not when i have the access to all the young, bright and hot lil chics coming from UNIPORT and RSUST, men wake up, there is simply a difference btw a whale and goldfish

Tonero

too me, if a guy thinks he's hot, a hot and young chic will come, thats how i operate simple!

on the side of SELF ESTEEM, i think its a point to reference becos, its only an old friend who thinks she cannot be attractive to her level-pair that joins with a young guy who is jus too young and energetic looking for a hole to exercise his manhood.

they say MAGNET attracts MAGNET

LOW ESTEEM attracts LOW ESTEEM

and by the way, i gave ma chic a hot kiss this morning b4 she left for school(UST), she's 4yrs younger. <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />

jus learn from me , am the DON

Tonero

too me, if a guy thinks he's hot, a hot and young chic will come, thats how i operate simple!

on the side of SELF ESTEEM, i think its a point to reference becos, its only an old friend who thinks she cannot be attractive to her level-pair that joins with a young guy who is jus too young and energetic looking for a hole to exercise his manhood.

they say MAGNET attracts MAGNET

LOW ESTEEM attracts LOW ESTEEM

and by the way, i gave ma chic a hot kiss this morning b4 she left for school(UST), she's 4yrs younger. <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />

jus learn from me , am the DON

folasanwo

you're not serious.... you dont know my age, thats why... i'm like praise in a way (ahead of my time...lol), so typically, when i see a chic who's my age, she looks like a juvy to me, and i aint attracted, at this level, i've not been with a chic younger than me in like 2 years... not like i'm sleeping around oh... i'm just saying....

doni

d problem wit us is dat we ve 2 many rules n regulations dat we prefer 2 stick 2 such rules dan folowing our heart. relationship dese days ve gone past d "age thg". weda older or younger is not d issue. u can date or ve sex wit whoever u want 2 as far as u re comfortable or ok wit it. CHIKENA

Tonero

@folansanwo

men it simply tells me u aint attractive to them young chic, is a chic of 24,25 a small chic?, am marvelled at y u i thought to be a cool G be falling for an aged mama, there's a problem somewhere

@doni,

well whether rules or no rules, it is simple pathetic to date a dude of 15 olderor younger , afterall, even the western culture u r trying to portray still call this old men SUGAR DADDY, not sugar guy or sugar fella, so this phenomenon cuts across all cultureand for u information if u r already in it, jus a lil advice leave that small boy alone or that sugar daddy, 6-8yrs gap is okay

Tonero

and by the way what happens to theboth of them when they grow old?, think about it

folasanwo

ok... drum rolls....lol

you say 24-25 is okay? thats what i think also...infact my last 2 relationships were with 25 yr olds... here's the catch... i'm 20 years old! <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="

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folasanwo

see why i cant date my mates? most of the are just entrying uni, i'm done with school, and have worked for three years!....2 before finishing and one after...!

Tonero

"folasanwo&quot wrote:

ok... drum rolls....lol

... i'm 20 years old! <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="" title="Very Happy" /></p></div></blockquote>

hmmmmmmmm, now i see, a very very very very small boy, Jesus Christ i cant believe this, men for real,pls someone shoul wake me up

Tonero

huuuuh, then which means ur manhoo* is still babyish now i see y you are trying to exercise it with them old mamas who want some fresh blood , no b ur fault jare

folasanwo

...lmao.... nope its not babyish dont worry... its old enough to snatch your babe in UST...lol... wanna try?.....

mehn, no be me born myself, so i've stopped getting mad at being young, and decided to do mad stuffs while i can...lol...i work in a bank... and i'm doing good...<img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="

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Tonero

"folasanwo&quot wrote:

its old enough to snatch your babe in UST...lol... wanna try?.....

...<img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="" title="Very Happy" /></p></div></blockquote>

ok lets try(laughs) she go break am that lollypop wer u get say na man****, i swear

warlord

as you guys are now arguing over the size of manhoo* someone in the house should kindly provide us with ruler to measure the thing <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_idea.gif" alt=":idea:" title="Idea" />

no long TiN <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_exclaim.gif" alt=":!:" title="Exclamation" />

folasanwo

...lol.... nope... no one is arguing about sizes... tonero is just tired of his babe and wants to loose her to me!...lol...

no long thing!

doni

@ tonero datin an older person does not ve any thg 2 do wit culture although its rampant in western society. my point or rather my opinion still remains "date who ever u want 2 weda older or younger". talkin of rules, dere is even none dat says dat we shud date younger pple. if any1 decides 2 date an older person den dat persons decision shud b respected. its a free world plz

folasanwo

pleazzzzzzzzzzzzzz date my younger brother... he's 13 and needs a girlfriend urgently....lol...

ah...before you say yes, i'm an 'only son' oh...lol

wats good y'all!!

Tonero

Ok o, i don hear u,madam doni

but just a lil question for u,

1. who thought a lil baby to pick his/her food with the hand(and not leg) and put it into his/her mouth, you will say NATURE, but do u know that nature and culture has got strong ties,

so what am trying to say is that nature simply tells u to do those things that are naturally cultured like a man marrying a young girl of say below 2-10, and same, or above 2-10

noww what we need to realise here is that it ageing affects the females more, you know that!,

like what can a guy of 35yrs be doing with a woman of 50yrs already in her menopause and u call that love and freedom to live your life.well even the aged will frown at your stupidity and rain curses , (hope you realise that wisdom lies with the aged more) so whatever they see as wrong pls accept it as wrong, and not fronting your style of "ITS A FREE WORLD BLA BLA BLA"

love you

folasanwo

bros... come, whats your own sef... you no see say runs dey click for here?

doni

@tonero. woteva

if u fall 4 an older person n decide 2 suffer urself bcos of "words of wisdom" 4rm our elders, den dats ur cup of tea. as 4 me ill not restrict myself 2 dat

folasanwo

thank you joh doni....thats the spirit!

warlord

Una never tire for the same issue? Please my people lets move on <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" />

daveadofu

A topic of this kind came up some time ago and a Girl was like the older men are more protective, caring e.t.c.the topic was OLDER MARRIED MEN AND YOUNGER MEN,WHICH DO YOU PREFER?
Now, 10 years is equal to a decade,a lot of transformation happen within 10 year.Those days in the villages even till now, there is what is called 'Age Grade' if you date or marry a person 10 years of age difference,your dispositon to live will differ.you will discover that there will be so many issues you will not agree on.An older woman can even easily 4get her age sometimes to switch into the younger man's age in a bid to have fun,but there are some men who beleive that at a certain age they shouldn't be seen dancing not to talk of going to a party or night club.Marriage is all about companionship.
A friend once told me that she is so careful in her choice of partner cos,it might be 4 a life time, and that if you are destined to live for 85 years,and you marry the wrong person at 25,it means 50 years will be spent in hell on earth.Lets be careful when comes to the issue of the heart.Age difference amongst other things should be arefully put into consideration

drixie

I thought this was about sex and not marriage. <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt="

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daveadofu

When the pleasure becomes intense, the thought of the later sets in,cos what you like the most, you will want to keep.

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